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First date with a girl. How to behave correctly?
The article contains simple tips for men going on a first date. How to prove yourself and have a good evening together.Let's first define the goals of this very date. In principle, the goal is always the same and it is known to everyone. But to achieve it, you need to be patient and restrained. Therefore, it is better to devote the first date to the dating process, as well as gain the girl's trust and let her know that you are interested in her.So, you have made an appointment, have thoroughly prepared and are waiting for your chosen one at the agreed place. You must not be late in any case. Women are very offended if a man is late. She may not say anything about it, but you will thoroughly spoil her mood, and, accordingly, the date.There are different ways to treat a girl's lateness. If this is a momentary infatuation for you, then you can let her off any lateness, since you don't want to see her anymore, and let her do what she wants. If you are planning something serious, then you should not jump to conclusions. First, determine for yourself her tardiness limit. And if she doesn't exceed it, then excuse her. Why ruin a date over such a small thing? Exceeded it? Then see for yourself. It is better to immediately understand the reasons for being late. If this sounds more like an excuse, explain that you are a serious busy person and your time is still worth something. Ask her in a serious tone not to do that anymore. But don't focus too much on this topic during the evening.Now about the topics for conversation. They can be very diverse: from simple compliments to her beauty to the philosophy of Confucius. The main thing is that you both find it interesting. Forbidden topics should be avoided: conversations about your health (who wants to find out about your illnesses and ailments from the very first day), cars, sports, and former mistresses. It also happens, of course, that a girl is interested in one of the topics, and you will find common ground of interests in one of these areas. Well, then you're in luck. In addition to the girl, you will also get a like-minded person. This, however, happens extremely rarely. And you rather risk incurring her anger or annoyance by raising such a topic. Also, you should not tell long stories if you are not a master of the conversational genre. You risk boring the lady. And boredom is the main enemy of a successful date.So, a conversation ensued. And in order to maintain it, you don't have to know everything about everything. You just need to control the flow of the conversation and try to translate it into a topic that you are more knowledgeable about. But whatever topic you choose, it's not what you say that matters, but how. Therefore, keep relaxed, confident and friendly. This way you will give the impression of a confident and sociable person and create a warm, friendly atmosphere. Women are more susceptible than men to non-verbal signals (facial expressions, gestures) that accompany speech. Do not forget about why you met and in every possible way let her understand your intentions in these ways: gestures, facial expressions, looks and intonation. It is also important not to lose physical contact, otherwise she may become convinced that you only see her as a pleasant companion, and on the next date you may receive a sharp refusal.The girl needs to be gradually prepared for the "inevitable." She must think about the upcoming events in advance and mentally prepare herself. And to make everything very clear to her, remind her of this with the help of gestures. Touches should be light, unobtrusive, and romantic. It is advisable not to focus on kissing.It is best to touch your hair, cheeks, neck, take your hand, hug your waist, shoulders, kiss your hands, carry them on steps or through puddles.Imitation tactics are very effective. If you repeat her gestures and facial expressions, use the "parasitic words" inherent in her speech, this will greatly contribute to your rapprochement.A girl needs to be admired and complimented.Moreover, it is advisable to pay more attention to exactly those qualities that you sincerely admire in her.To feel more relaxed, treat a date as an entertainment and an opportunity to get to know a new person. You have nothing to lose, because you have nothing to lose yet. No need to be nervous or doubtful. She's also worried about the impression she'll make on you. Keep it simple, relax and enjoy.Should I escort the girl home?In principle, it would not be superfluous, especially if she herself asked or did not try to dissuade you. Well, if you couldn't see her off due to any circumstances, then call her to find out if she got there safely. New players often look for ways to boost their starting balance so they can explore features with more freedom and less financial pressure. 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